Is Blame Game Normal?

 

5th Week of Lent Monday

Dan 13:41-62

Meditation

Is Blame Game Normal?

Susanna refuses to sin with the three men. They falsely accuse her to eliminate her. She was brought to judgment. She was tried publicly. The Spirit of the Lord inspires Daniel to go to the innocent daughter of Israel. Thanks be to God for the discernment that the Lord has given to Daniel. He cross-examines the three men separately in public, and they give variable, incorrect answers to Daniel's questions. In public, it was revealed that three men were only falsely accusing Susanna, the innocent daughter of Israel.

The easy game we play every day is often a blame game. The blame game is the first game that human beings learned. Adam and Eve along the snake blamed each other. We continue the game because it is a way of escaping reality. Humans pass on their problems to someone and something; they never accept that each one is a problem and insincere, in a way deceiving oneself and others. The best way of coming out is to accept oneself that we are humans not angels and take responsibility for our actions. May God send people like Daniel to open our eyes to the reality of life.

Do I accept that I play a blame game on an everyday basis?

Gospel: Jn 8:1-11

Meditation

while Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. Early in the morning he came again to the temple. All the people came to him and he sat down and began to teach them. The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery; and making her stand before all of them,  they said to him, "Teacher, this woman was caught in the very act of committing adultery.  Now in the law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?"  They said this to test him, so that they might have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground.  When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "Let anyone among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her."  And once again he bent down and wrote on the ground.  When they heard it, they went away, one by one, beginning with the elders; and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him.  Jesus straightened up and said to her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" She said, "No one, sir." And Jesus said, "Neither do I condemn you. Go your way, and from now on do not sin again."

We find faults in others, which also would reflect in us. The woman was brought before Jesus in order to trap Jesus and also to humiliate the woman. To cover our faults, we speak ill of others' faults and weaknesses,  while the same faults are our own shortcomings and failures. At one moment or the other, humans do fail and sin. Humans are not angels without bodies; instead, we are humans with flesh. We accuse others of their faults and forget our own. Jesus asks the woman, Where are they?’ We need to ask ourselves, where are we? What are we when we accuse others?

Do we look at our interior life when we accuse others?

Fr Putti Anthaiah Sdb

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